After taking a sip from her own drink, Jade nodded, then she asked as Mirnda worked on her drink. “Well… let’s talk about ass, So, have you always liked it or did you have to train yourself? Is it something you do anytime, anywhere, or do you need warming up? Does it still hurt at the start or did you get past that? Do you ever do it by yourself with toys? Do you like front and back at the same time?”
Mirnda absorbed all the questions. “So, um…curious, are we?”
And now it was Jade’s turn to blush a little bit. “Yeah, well, I’ve been working on it. I’d like to think I’m an adventurous girl, but I haven’t quite gone down that road yet. I had an ex who was real pushy about it, and trying to sneak it in there like I wouldn’t notice, and he kind of turned me off to it. It’s not that I wasn’t willing to consider it, but he was an asshole about well, my asshole. And that wasn’t a turn on at all.”
Mirnda laughed. “Yeah. I had a similar experience. I had a boyfriend a few years ago who was really gung-ho about it because I didn’t want him to fuck my pussy since I was saving it for marriage. He kept pushing and pushing and trying to pressure me into it since he get his deal and I didn’t lose virginity. So we got up to fingers and small toys before we finally broke up. I had just started to feel comfortable with it at that point, so then I was on my own, and did it by myself and really started to get into it. He was first boyfriend and last, I understand that it’s better to marry directly instead of having boyfriend. However, I like in the ass, and Karan was one who did it. Although I lost virginity, I still wanted to limit use of my pussy, so Karan used in ass most of time. Once it became a regular part of my sex life, I found myself going through phases where that’s all I want for a while, and then there I decided that I only want this from Karan.”
“Really?” Jade looked impressed. “All the time?”
“Kind of all the time. But there are days that I allow Karan to fuck me in pussy.”
“Do you do it every time?”
“Oh, no. My ex-husband didn’t like it all for hygiene reasons. And sometimes, just regular sex is all I’m after, like if I’m trying to drift off to sleep – anal is just a bigger production, more intense. There’re also days your sphincter just says no and, try as you might, anything going in there is going to hurt. You have to learn to listen to it, or it’s going to get damaged and not going to be so receptive next time. Karan, pick up on that pretty quick and steer clear of it if it’s not going down.”
“Even after doing it a lot, there’s just times it won’t work?”
“Yup. Sometimes, I don’t even need lube or barely any warming up, and it’s just ready for cock. Other times; my ass is just not in the right mood. I don’t know how porn stars do it – knowing that I’m going to get fucked in the ass Thursday at ten am is going to take me out of the mood completely.”
Jade nodded, enraptured, while Mirnda continued. “And I know sounds like a cliché, but when you first start, your heart has to be in it. It just can’t be something your head wants to do just because you think it’s something you should have done by the time you turn 30 or your boyfriend wants to do it or whatever. You have to genuinely want to do it. You have to be prepared, you have to be comfortable with the idea of it, and I’d recommend actually being comfortable with having something fairly good sized up there while you’re completely in control of the situation.”
“Like a dildo?”
“Exactly. Preferably one with a flared end so it doesn’t get lost up there.”
“Lost?” Jade looked horrified and crossed her legs defensively. “What the hell? It can do that?”
“I’ve heard horror stories; I don’t know how true they are, honestly. But I’ve always erred on the side of caution. That’s a conversation in the ER I don’t want to have.”
“Awkward.”
“Very.”
“I can just picture it now. ‘Honey, go get the salad tongs!'”
Both women busted out laughing. After a few seconds, Jade hesitantly confessed. “I’ve been practicing solo, with fingers and toys, to try to work up to it with a guy. And it’s been pretty good; I’ve been using lube pretty liberally, although I seem to need less and less as I do it more. Sometimes it’s a little tough at first and other times, it just doesn’t work at all, but I’ve been having more and more success. I’ve had a couple of setbacks where I try to go too deep or too quick and hurt myself. I’m just scared to give control of that over to someone else; if he starts pounding too hard or thrusting too deep, I’m scared I’m not going to be able to stop it like I can when I’m by myself.”
Mirnda nodded. “That’s understandable. If it makes you feel any better, Karan’s really good at it, and he had no issues stopping if I told him to.”
“That’s good to hear.” Jade paused for a few seconds to take another drink.
“So, lately, when I’ve been doing it, I’ve been trying to use a rabbit on my clit while using a dildo in my … back door, trying to get me off while there’s something up there.”
“Is it working?”
“Yeah, pretty much. I actually find myself slipping the front toy in when I’m close to cumming, so I have penetration from both sides, and that’s usually what sends me over the edge. Does that work for you?”
“More often than not, yeah.” Mirnda paused while deciding whether to go on or not. Then she realized she’d come this far, why stop now? “Sometimes, it’s what I want when there’s an actual dick involved, too.”
Jade raised an eyebrow. “You mean … one real dick and a toy? Or two real dicks?”
“Did you Forget, I only have experience with two guys… different time… it’s One real dick and one toy.” Mirnda smiled. “Although I think I’d like to try it with two real dicks some time. That could be amazing.” However she knew that she would never do it. After all, for that she need to know those two dicks’s owner very well, and at same time comfortable with them which was nearly impossible. If not because drunken mistake she and Karan did it, she wouldn’t be comfortable with Karan. Even for Jack’s father, Mirnda was uncomfortable for few months before she accepted him. She doesn’t wanted a sex when she was uncomfortable with men. She endure with Jack’s father first few months because she decided to marry him.
Jade nodded contemplatively and continued. “Do you always need lube? On some of the smaller toys, I’ve gotten so I don’t need it sometimes. I hear some girls can do the full monty without lube, but I can’t imagine. That sounds terrible.”
Mirnda nodded. “I usually need lube, but there are times when I’m just so wet and horny it slides right in. That usually only happens, though, after we’ve been having normal sex and we decide to switch it up midstream, so there’s already some natural lube going on. But when everything’s working, and I’m wet enough for that, and it works, it’s a pretty amazing feeling just to take it all at once. It’s not for beginners, though, that’s for sure.”
Jade nodded understandingly. “That’s good information, thanks. Yeah, I think it’s going to happen soon.”
Mirnda smiled. “For your sake, I hope you enjoy it. It can be a ton of fun.”
“Me too!”